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Redefining Your Relationship to Healthy Boundaries
Healthy personal boundaries are some of the most challenging skills to master. Most people never have to examine their relationship to their boundaries (physical, mental,
In the IRAM, the Mature Inner Adult is the conscious, responsive and mature expression of expansiveness. It contains 6 archetypes (Available Adult, Compassionate Adult, Nurturer, Honoring Adult, Responsible Adult and Protector). These qualities are the embodiment of the “ideal parent, role model or adult.” Each Archetype only evolves with practice, cultivation and refinement.
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COACHING CASE STUDY: Examining Trust, Control & Agreements in Relationships
Q- A man I’ve been involved with for many years is wanting us to consider the next step… He however is concerned about a few things- He feels that I put down his friends – in particular a couple of girls that he is friends with and it makes him feel that I’m judgmental not…
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No one in any Relationship Can “Complete You”
Markus explores the commonly romanticized ideal that your romantic partner, spouse, boy/girl friend or any relationship can “complete you.” What does that mean? How can this grossly misunderstood belief influence and disempower the inner world and dynamics of an individual and a relationship?
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Idealism: One of the Biggest Mistakes in Relationships
Every human being has the capacity for unlimited potential. But one of the biggest and most common mistakes for people is to base their relationships
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Navigating the Unconscious Behavior of Your Family
It can be difficult to navigate your family or origin. The dynamics are not only familiar but also seductive. How can one navigate the unconscious conditioning of your family? What is the most honoring and loving approach without losing yourself?
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Stop Allowing Your Job to Own Your Life
In this question Markus addresses the way most people unconsciously approach their relationship to their work, their clients and/or job. Does your job own you? Do you have an empowered relationship to your work? What are the contractive dynamics at play? What are the most common underlying projections most people have on their employers and…
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Exploring the Dynamics of Healthy Commitment
What is a healthy commitment? What does that mean? What are the qualities that make up a healthy commitment? Why do we need this for a thriving relationship? How can an aware and intentional approach to the qualities that make up a healthy commitment change the game in all your relationships?
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Recognizing the Difference Between Enabling and Nurturing
In this discussion Markus explores the confusion between the Mature Inner Adult Archetype, the Nurturer and the Shadow Inner Adult Archetype the Enabler. How are they different? Why are they often confused? Why is it important to know the difference?
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Blocks to Developing an Empowered Relationship to Your Intuition
What are some of the biggest blocks to developing an empowered relationship to your intuition? What gets in your way? What can you do to move through these blocks as you continue to develop your personal intuitive faculties?
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The Internal Controlling Adult vs the Protector: Control vs Boundaries
Markus addresses this commonly misunderstood idea in this video as he unravels the dynamics of the Shadow Inner Adult aspect of the Controlling Inner Adult and the Mature Inner Adult aspect of the Protector. What are the subtle differences between boundaries and control? Sometimes they seem very similar and it is difficult to know the…
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COACHING CASE STUDY: The Qualities of a Healthy Inner/Outer Relationship
What are the qualities of a truly healthy inner and outer relationships? In this video, Markus outlines what dynamics you want to cultivate in order the help create and sustain this expansive state in your inner and outer world.
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Transcending the Voice of Sabotage
What is sabotage? What creates your inner sabotage? What are the unconscious inner dynamics that cause this contractive behavior? Markus explores how to identity and work with this inner behavior.
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What is the Difference Between Responding vs Reacting?
In this discussion Markus addresses the difference between responding (expansive) and reacting (contractive). Why is it important to know this? How does your awareness of these two states shift the way you deal with every relationship in your life?
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“Holding space” with Inner/Outer Compassion
What is holding space? Why is this such an important skill in your relationships? In this dialogue Markus explores the inner dynamics of availability and the power of holding space with compassion for yourself and others.
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The Need to Create Conscious Agreements in Your Relationships
In this Q&A Markus outlines the absolute necessity of conscious and intentional agreements in your relationships. Why is this important? How does this build a healthy relationship when you create, communicate, honor these agreements?
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Healthy Arguments and the Need for “Rules of Engagement”
Is there such a thing as a healthy argument? What are “Rules of Engagement”? How do you created them? Why are they an important factor in having a healthy argument with your partner? Why is this powerful when you are in conflict with another?
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