Tag: Shadow Inner Adult

In the IRAM, the Shadow Inner Adult is the unconscious, reactive and shadow expression of Contractiveness. It contains 6 archetypes (Internal Critical Parent, The Enabler, Inauthentic Handler Unavailable Adult, Controlling Inner Adult and the Possessive Inner Adult ). These qualities are the embodiment of the “unevolved or darker aspects of your begin” Each Archetype is conditioned through your history and personal experience. Though you cannot change the conditioning, you can however change your relationship to the conditioning.

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Breakfast with Bobbi: “The Shadow Teacher” Posturing, Spiritual Bi-Pass & The Inauthentic Handler

In this potent interview with Kristina Bloom and Bobbi Klebenow, Special guest, Markus Kasunich unravels the dynamics of the Shadow Teacher. What is it? Why is this person so dangerous in the Spiritual Community. Investgigate the pattterns of the SHADOW INNER ADULT: Inauthentic Handler, Spiritual Posturing, Spiritual Bi-pass, accountability, integrity, Mentorship, and the initiation process of ancient Mystery Schools.

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THE SHADOW ADULT: Inauthentic Handler (45 mins)

The SHADOW INNER ADULT: The Inauthentic Handler. Explore all the dynmaics of this aspect of the Shadow. Understanding the qualities and expression of this archetype can assist you in more consciously navigating all of your inner and outer relationships.

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The Enabler: Working with the Subtle Patterns of Martyrdom and Self-sacrifice

The real work to change your behavior begins in noticing the day-to-day subtle patterns of Enabling and Self-Sacrifice…

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Trauma Bonding: Contractive & Expansive Feedback Loop

So many of our relationships are examples of unconscious trauma bonding aka Contractive Relationship Feedback loops. In this clip we explore the types of contractive bonding that can occur in relationships and the possibilities for Expansive relationship feedback loops.

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Q&A – Projection & Victimization: The Dark Side of the Empath

Pop-culture spirituality often references the Archetype of “the Empath.” In this clip we explore victimization and Projection – the often unexamined dark side of that archetype.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Trauma Bonding – Expansive & Contractive Relationship Feedback Loop

In this powerful discussion we will explore the concept of “trauma bonding” and explore the dynamics that make up this type of contractive relationship feedback loop. We will also compare and contrast the difference between the Contractive and Expansive Feedback Loop and learn how to move “from below the line” to “above the line”.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Examining Trust, Control & Agreements in Relationships

Q- A man I’ve been involved with for many years is wanting us to consider the next step… He however is concerned about a few things- He feels that I put down his friends – in particular a couple of girls that he is friends with and it makes him feel that I’m judgmental not…

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Navigating the Unconscious Behavior of Your Family

It can be difficult to navigate your family or origin. The dynamics are not only familiar but also seductive. How can one navigate the unconscious conditioning of your family? What is the most honoring and loving approach without losing yourself?

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Recognizing the Difference Between Enabling and Nurturing

In this discussion Markus explores the confusion between the Mature Inner Adult Archetype, the Nurturer and the Shadow Inner Adult Archetype the Enabler. How are they different? Why are they often confused? Why is it important to know the difference?

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The Internal Controlling Adult vs the Protector: Control vs Boundaries

Markus addresses this commonly misunderstood idea in this video as he unravels the dynamics of the Shadow Inner Adult aspect of the Controlling Inner Adult and the Mature Inner Adult aspect of the Protector. What are the subtle differences between boundaries and control? Sometimes they seem very similar and it is difficult to know the…

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Transcending the Voice of Sabotage

What is sabotage? What creates your inner sabotage? What are the unconscious inner dynamics that cause this contractive behavior? Markus explores how to identity and work with this inner behavior.

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What is the Difference Between Responding vs Reacting?

In this discussion Markus addresses the difference between responding (expansive) and reacting (contractive). Why is it important to know this? How does your awareness of these two states shift the way you deal with every relationship in your life?

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The Enabler: The Karmic Price of Enabling

Markus explores the Shadow Inner Adult Archetype of the Enabler? The passive behavior of enabling unhealthy behavior in yourself or another always has a Karmic price not only for the Enabler but also for the one who is being enabled. Learn to work with this inner conditioning in your inner and outer relationships.

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