Having an Expansive Relationship with Your Shadow Inner Adult: (Inauthentic Handler) (21 mins)
Q: How do you have compassion for the Inauthentic Handler instead of just getting mad at that aspect of your conditioning.
In the IRAM, the Wounded Inner Child is the unconscious, reactive and disempowered expression of Contractiveness. It contains 6 archetypes (Overdramatic Child, Overindulged Child, Needy Child, Misunderstood Child, Frozen Child and Lost Child). These qualities are the embodiment of the “unevolved or childish aspects of your begin”. Each Archetype is conditioned through your history and personal experience. Though you cannot change the conditioning, you can however change your relationship to the conditioning.
Q: How do you have compassion for the Inauthentic Handler instead of just getting mad at that aspect of your conditioning.
In this engaging Q&A, Markus explores the power and potency of certain phrases and words when they are applied to specific writing techniques, reprogramming your behaviors and patterns, and your internal self-dialogue.
In Part TWO of this Two-Part podcast series with Bobbi Klebenow and Kristina Bloom, Special Guest, Markus Kasunich explores the dynamics of the Wounded Inner Child. What is it? Why is this a pivotal aspect of your personal exploration and Spiritual journey? Markus shares the map (from his IRAM book) on how to understand and access this powerful aspect of your inner world which can supercharge your journey and your life.
Q: I have been having a lot of trouble when I get triggered and go into a specific fragment of my Wounded Inner Child. I find myself getting totally consumed by the pain of the wound, I feel sorry for myself, I get lost and I often stuck. In this discussion we will explore the how activating the Available Adult can help this process.
These 3 processes (compliments of Spiritual teacher Ken Wibur) are the necessary keys in your personal and Spiritual development. Without them, it is almost impossible to reach your full potential. In this powerful discussion Markus defines and examines how these elements on th path, and apply to every aspect of your journey.
“I feel stuck and I don’t know how to move forward. Can you help?” This a common experience for many people at some point in life. In this powerful discussion we explore the dynamics and the remedy of the WOUNDED INNER CHILD: Frozen Child to get you back on track.
In this case study, we explore the power of parenting, the dynamics of what kind of patterns come up and how to address them…
Q: Can you talk about the dynamics of the PRIMAL WOUND of Injustice? I find this core issue one of the most difficult to wrap my head around. I could use some help to better understand it and how it works. Can you help?
So many of our relationships are examples of unconscious trauma bonding aka Contractive Relationship Feedback loops. In this clip we explore the types of contractive bonding that can occur in relationships and the possibilities for Expansive relationship feedback loops.
Pop-culture spirituality often references the Archetype of “the Empath.” In this clip we explore victimization and Projection – the often unexamined dark side of that archetype.
Everyone wants a companion and partner who will support them in their process. Of course, but what happens when you make your partner your therapist? What kind of affect does this have on your relationship? How do you shift this dynamic and what are the unexplored conditioning that creates this behavior. In this Coaching Case…
In this discussion we explore the healing power of pets. Why are human beings so obsessed with their pets? What are the deeper dynamics that make humans so attracted and devotion to their animal companions? What role do pets paly in the spiritual journey of self-investigation?
In this powerful discussion we will explore the concept of “trauma bonding” and explore the dynamics that make up this type of contractive relationship feedback loop. We will also compare and contrast the difference between the Contractive and Expansive Feedback Loop and learn how to move “from below the line” to “above the line”.
This aspect of the WOUNDED INNER CHILD (Over-Dramatic Child) is one of the most unappreciated and judged aspects of your inner world. Learning to accept, appreciate and have compassion for this wounded voice can create powerful healing in shifting your inner relationship to your Wounded Inner Child.
It can be difficult to navigate your family or origin. The dynamics are not only familiar but also seductive. How can one navigate the unconscious conditioning of your family? What is the most honoring and loving approach without losing yourself?
In this discussion Markus explores the Wounded Inner Child Archetype the Needy Child. What are the dynamics that make up this aspect of your contractive, disempowered nature. What is the necessary understanding and medicine that you need to apply to shift your inner and outer relationship to this part of you?