Tag: Mature Inner Adult

In the IRAM, the Mature Inner Adult is the conscious, responsive and mature expression of expansiveness. It contains 6 archetypes (Available Adult, Compassionate Adult, Nurturer, Honoring Adult, Responsible Adult and Protector). These qualities are the embodiment of the “ideal parent, role model or adult.” Each Archetype only evolves with practice, cultivation and refinement.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Creating More Romance in your Relationships (35 mins)

Q: I want more romance from my partner. Where did it go? I have asked, I am not sure my partner really knows what it is or what to do. In fact, I am not sure I have ever articulated what romance is to me. If I want to ask for more romance, I need to understand what it is. Can you discuss the dynamics of romance, how to create it and how to sustain it?

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Understanding The Dynamics of Direct Experience (36 mins)

There are 4 foundational keys to Direct Expereince. In this discucssion we explore these keys to help you to more deeply be available to, understand, experience, and integrate these different manifestations of Direct Experience. Expand and refine your relationship to how you experience your inner and outer Spiritual landscape.

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Waking Up, Cleaning Up, and Growing Up (20 mins)

These 3 processes (compliments of Spiritual teacher Ken Wibur) are the necessary keys in your personal and Spiritual development. Without them, it is almost impossible to reach your full potential. In this powerful discussion Markus defines and examines how these elements on th path, and apply to every aspect of your journey.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Parenting with Non-attachment (26 mins)

In this case study, we explore the power of parenting, the dynamics of what kind of patterns come up and how to address them…

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Change your Life with the Power of Affirmations (10 mins)

Affirmations are misunderstood and underestimated in the world of self-development. In this discussion we explore everything you need…

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The Enabler: Working with the Subtle Patterns of Martyrdom and Self-sacrifice

The real work to change your behavior begins in noticing the day-to-day subtle patterns of Enabling and Self-Sacrifice…

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Navigating The Difference in the Feeling and Expression of Anger (11 mins)

There is a difference between having the right to feel your contractive emotions and how you choose to express those emotions…

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Trauma Bonding: Contractive & Expansive Feedback Loop

So many of our relationships are examples of unconscious trauma bonding aka Contractive Relationship Feedback loops. In this clip we explore the types of contractive bonding that can occur in relationships and the possibilities for Expansive relationship feedback loops.

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MATURE INNER ADULT: The Dynamics of the Protector

Using the IRAM model, in this clip we will examine the many dynamics of the MATURE INNER ADULT archetype, The Protector. This powerful aspect of your being is a necessary component for balanced, mature inner and outer relationships.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: The Problem With Using Your partner as Your Therapist

Everyone wants a companion and partner who will support them in their process. Of course, but what happens when you make your partner your therapist? What kind of affect does this have on your relationship? How do you shift this dynamic and what are the unexplored conditioning that creates this behavior. In this Coaching Case…

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Shifting your Mindset From Comparison to Inspiration

What is the line between the contraction of comparison and the expansive mindset of inspiration? What is the difference and how does choosing one over the other determine how you will relate to your inner and outer world?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Developing True Resiliency

Q- These times seem to require heightened resiliency, shifts in our mindset, relationships and in our priorities to deal with the world around us. Do you think resiliency a learned skill? What makes one person more resilient than another? And from your perspective, what are the most important qualities to sustain resiliency?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Parenting as a Spiritual Practice

Q- I am a single parent. I am constantly battling with balance. How do I prioritize children and motherhood and at the same time continue still be fully committed to my own inner development and path? I don’t want to give up my life – And, I want to role model to my child that…

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The Root Causes of Toxic Masculinity

What is at the source of Toxic Masculinity? What are the cultural influences and conditioning that have created and precipitated this behavior ? How does this translate to our relationship between the genders and how does this define our every day behavior? To access more on this topic explore the course “Understanding Toxic Masculinity.

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