Tag: Mature Inner Adult

In the IRAM, the Mature Inner Adult is the conscious, responsive and mature expression of expansiveness. It contains 6 archetypes (Available Adult, Compassionate Adult, Nurturer, Honoring Adult, Responsible Adult and Protector). These qualities are the embodiment of the “ideal parent, role model or adult.” Each Archetype only evolves with practice, cultivation and refinement.

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Understanding Your Conscience, Regret and Remorse (54 mins)

Q: I feel deeply regretful for some of the things done in my past. Many of those behaviors I still do, so I have noticed that my feeling of regret still is not enough for me to change. Yet I feel horrible what I have done. What is the difference between regret, remorse, and my conscience. Why even after feeling all this regret, do I still choose the same behaviors?

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The Difference Between Feeling and Presence (22 mins)

Q: You have often said that the entry point to direct experience begins with your emotional, feeling nature. So if this is true, then what is the difference between feeling and presence? Are they not the same thing? I was told recently that I spend most of my time absorbed by my emotional body. Is that not accessing my presence? If not then how do I create deeper access to my presence beyond my human emotions.

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Sharing Your Spiritual Journey with Discernment (20 mins)

Q: How do you handle it when someone says your spiritual journey makes them uncomfortable and asks you not to talk about it? I openly shared my experiences with the last full moon, and I was met with a very unfavorable response. Any suggestions?

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Having an Expansive Relationship with Your Shadow Inner Adult: (Inauthentic Handler) (21 mins)

Q: How do you have compassion for the Inauthentic Handler instead of just getting mad at that aspect of your conditioning.

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How to Empower Your 5-D Consciousness Shift (26 mins)

Q: I’ve been hearing and reading more and more about the big Shift in Consciousness in life occurring right now.  Do you see the changes of earth’s vibrations to 5D? I’ve heard there are big changes coming. What are your thoughts on the changes of mother earth and the downfall of life the way it is with the government, our monetary banks, and then also catastrophic events for mother earth to heal and for us to shift into oneness, compassion, and loving all.  What can we do to prepare ourselves for this?  I would love your perspective on this?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Conscious Dating And Relationship Tips (24 mins)

Q: I want more romance from my partner. Where did it go? I have asked, I am not sure my partner really knows what it is or what to do. In fact, I am not sure I have ever articulated what romance is to me. If I want to ask for more romance, I need to understand what it is. Can you discuss the dynamics of romance, how to create it and how to sustain it?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Working with your Conditioning (24 mins)

Q: I want more romance from my partner. Where did it go? I have asked, I am not sure my partner really knows what it is or what to do. In fact, I am not sure I have ever articulated what romance is to me. If I want to ask for more romance, I need to understand what it is. Can you discuss the dynamics of romance, how to create it and how to sustain it?

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Connecting to Your Inherent Bliss through the Radiant Child (30 mins)

Q: I’ve found one of my greatest stumbling blocks on this spiritual path is allowing myself joy – experiencing my profound creativity without limiting it. I realize this is due to my conditioning and wonder if you have insights for consistent redirection of focus from tension to flexion, from fear to creative joy.  What can you suggest to more deeply connect to that inner and outer joy.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Getting Lost in the Wound (22 mins)

Q: I have been having a lot of trouble when I get triggered and go into a specific fragment of my Wounded Inner Child. I find myself getting totally consumed by the pain of the wound, I feel sorry for myself, I get lost and I often stuck.  In this discussion we will explore the how activating the Available Adult can help this process.

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The Danger of Spiritual Posturing

Pay attention to so called “teachers” who need to garner attention and grandstand their spiritual prowess or position at your expense. These tactics are often hard to spot because the unchecked Inauthentic Handler is a Master of Deception. On the surface, they may say all the right things, tell stories to demonstrate and elevate their position or their abilities, know all the right people, and be involved in all the right environments…

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What Motivates a Spiritual Seeker? (60 mins)

Q: What are some of the biggest “Spiritual Motivators” for any seeker on the spiritual path? Is there something notoable that usually inspires people to grow or change? What are the dynamics?

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Unreasonable Expectations of Your Partner

In Intimate relationships we often have unreasonable expectations of our partner. Why? In this discsussion we examine the cultural conditioning of the Nuclear family and the neeed for a mentor, teacher, confidante, spiritual community and friendship outside your relationship.

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The Magician: The Power of Discernment (22 mins)

In this discussion we will explore how the quallity of discernent relates to the Archetype of the Magician (masculine)/High Priestess (feminine) and why it is so important on the spiritual path.

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Speaking Your Truth (16 mins)

In this discussion we will examine a common phrase that has become very popular in the Spiritual Community “Speaking Your Truth.” What does it mean to speak your truth? When is it powerful and what are the often overlooked Issues reagrding this idea. We will also examine the difference between “Speaking Your Truth” and “Keeping Your Counsel” and how that relates to your journey.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Creating More Romance in your Relationships (35 mins)

Q: I want more romance from my partner. Where did it go? I have asked, I am not sure my partner really knows what it is or what to do. In fact, I am not sure I have ever articulated what romance is to me. If I want to ask for more romance, I need to understand what it is. Can you discuss the dynamics of romance, how to create it and how to sustain it?

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Understanding The Dynamics of Direct Experience (36 mins)

There are 4 foundational keys to Direct Expereince. In this discucssion we explore these keys to help you to more deeply be available to, understand, experience, and integrate these different manifestations of Direct Experience. Expand and refine your relationship to how you experience your inner and outer Spiritual landscape.

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