Tag: Mature Inner Adult

In the IRAM, the Mature Inner Adult is the conscious, responsive and mature expression of expansiveness. It contains 6 archetypes (Available Adult, Compassionate Adult, Nurturer, Honoring Adult, Responsible Adult and Protector). These qualities are the embodiment of the “ideal parent, role model or adult.” Each Archetype only evolves with practice, cultivation and refinement.

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Connecting to Your Inherent Bliss through the Radiant Child (30 mins)

Q: I’ve found one of my greatest stumbling blocks on this spiritual path is allowing myself joy – experiencing my profound creativity without limiting it. I realize this is due to my conditioning and wonder if you have insights for consistent redirection of focus from tension to flexion, from fear to creative joy.  What can you suggest to more deeply connect to that inner and outer joy.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Getting Lost in the Wound (22 mins)

Q: I have been having a lot of trouble when I get triggered and go into a specific fragment of my Wounded Inner Child. I find myself getting totally consumed by the pain of the wound, I feel sorry for myself, I get lost and I often stuck.  In this discussion we will explore the how activating the Available Adult can help this process.

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The Danger of Spiritual Posturing

Pay attention to so called “teachers” who need to garner attention and grandstand their spiritual prowess or position at your expense. These tactics are often hard to spot because the unchecked Inauthentic Handler is a Master of Deception. On the surface, they may say all the right things, tell stories to demonstrate and elevate their position or their abilities, know all the right people, and be involved in all the right environments…

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What Motivates a Spiritual Seeker? (60 mins)

Q: What are some of the biggest “Spiritual Motivators” for any seeker on the spiritual path? Is there something notoable that usually inspires people to grow or change? What are the dynamics?

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Unreasonable Expectations of Your Partner

In Intimate relationships we often have unreasonable expectations of our partner. Why? In this discsussion we examine the cultural conditioning of the Nuclear family and the neeed for a mentor, teacher, confidante, spiritual community and friendship outside your relationship.

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The Magician: The Power of Discernment (22 mins)

In this discussion we will explore how the quallity of discernent relates to the Archetype of the Magician (masculine)/High Priestess (feminine) and why it is so important on the spiritual path.

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Speaking Your Truth (16 mins)

In this discussion we will examine a common phrase that has become very popular in the Spiritual Community “Speaking Your Truth.” What does it mean to speak your truth? When is it powerful and what are the often overlooked Issues reagrding this idea. We will also examine the difference between “Speaking Your Truth” and “Keeping Your Counsel” and how that relates to your journey.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Creating More Romance in your Relationships (35 mins)

Q: I want more romance from my partner. Where did it go? I have asked, I am not sure my partner really knows what it is or what to do. In fact, I am not sure I have ever articulated what romance is to me. If I want to ask for more romance, I need to understand what it is. Can you discuss the dynamics of romance, how to create it and how to sustain it?

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Understanding The Dynamics of Direct Experience (36 mins)

There are 4 foundational keys to Direct Expereince. In this discucssion we explore these keys to help you to more deeply be available to, understand, experience, and integrate these different manifestations of Direct Experience. Expand and refine your relationship to how you experience your inner and outer Spiritual landscape.

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Waking Up, Cleaning Up, and Growing Up (20 mins)

These 3 processes (compliments of Spiritual teacher Ken Wibur) are the necessary keys in your personal and Spiritual development. Without them, it is almost impossible to reach your full potential. In this powerful discussion Markus defines and examines how these elements on th path, and apply to every aspect of your journey.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Parenting with Non-attachment (26 mins)

In this case study, we explore the power of parenting, the dynamics of what kind of patterns come up and how to address them…

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Change your Life with the Power of Affirmations (10 mins)

Affirmations are misunderstood and underestimated in the world of self-development. In this discussion we explore everything you need…

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The Enabler: Working with the Subtle Patterns of Martyrdom and Self-sacrifice

The real work to change your behavior begins in noticing the day-to-day subtle patterns of Enabling and Self-Sacrifice…

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Navigating The Difference in the Feeling and Expression of Anger (11 mins)

There is a difference between having the right to feel your contractive emotions and how you choose to express those emotions…

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