Tag: IRAM

The IRAM (Inner Relationship Archetypal Model) section contains content that investigates the 24 relationship archetypes of the Radiant Inner Child, Mature Inner Adult, Wounded Inner Child and Shadow Inner Adult. Learn how to apply this powerful map of your inner conditioning to all of your inner and outer relationships through these real life examples. Explore how your conscious and unconscious belief systems and conditioning influences every relationship in your life. Learn how to transform every outer relationship from the inside out.

For more specific exploration, click on one of the 4 expansive or contractive quadrants below:

RADIANT INNER CHILD
MATURE INNER ADULT
WOUNDED INNER CHILD
SHADOW INNER ADULT
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Q&A – Understanding the Primal Wound of Injustice

Q: Can you talk about the dynamics of the PRIMAL WOUND of Injustice? I find this core issue one of the most difficult to wrap my head around. I could use some help to better understand it and how it works. Can you help?

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Trauma Bonding: Contractive & Expansive Feedback Loop

So many of our relationships are examples of unconscious trauma bonding aka Contractive Relationship Feedback loops. In this clip we explore the types of contractive bonding that can occur in relationships and the possibilities for Expansive relationship feedback loops.

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MATURE INNER ADULT: The Dynamics of the Protector

Using the IRAM model, in this clip we will examine the many dynamics of the MATURE INNER ADULT archetype, The Protector. This powerful aspect of your being is a necessary component for balanced, mature inner and outer relationships.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: The Problem With Using Your partner as Your Therapist

Everyone wants a companion and partner who will support them in their process. Of course, but what happens when you make your partner your therapist? What kind of affect does this have on your relationship? How do you shift this dynamic and what are the unexplored conditioning that creates this behavior. In this Coaching Case…

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The Healing Power of Pets

In this discussion we explore the healing power of pets. Why are human beings so obsessed with their pets? What are the deeper dynamics that make humans so attracted and devotion to their animal companions? What role do pets paly in the spiritual journey of self-investigation?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Trauma Bonding – Expansive & Contractive Relationship Feedback Loop

In this powerful discussion we will explore the concept of “trauma bonding” and explore the dynamics that make up this type of contractive relationship feedback loop. We will also compare and contrast the difference between the Contractive and Expansive Feedback Loop and learn how to move “from below the line” to “above the line”.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Developing True Resiliency

Q- These times seem to require heightened resiliency, shifts in our mindset, relationships and in our priorities to deal with the world around us. Do you think resiliency a learned skill? What makes one person more resilient than another? And from your perspective, what are the most important qualities to sustain resiliency?

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WOUNDED INNER CHILD: Accepting the Over-Dramatic Child

This aspect of the WOUNDED INNER CHILD (Over-Dramatic Child) is one of the most unappreciated and judged aspects of your inner world. Learning to accept, appreciate and have compassion for this wounded voice can create powerful healing in shifting your inner relationship to your Wounded Inner Child.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Parenting as a Spiritual Practice

Q- I am a single parent. I am constantly battling with balance. How do I prioritize children and motherhood and at the same time continue still be fully committed to my own inner development and path? I don’t want to give up my life – And, I want to role model to my child that…

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Navigating the Unconscious Behavior of Your Family

It can be difficult to navigate your family or origin. The dynamics are not only familiar but also seductive. How can one navigate the unconscious conditioning of your family? What is the most honoring and loving approach without losing yourself?

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The Needy Child: Cultivating Inner/Outer Appreciation

In this discussion Markus explores the Wounded Inner Child Archetype the Needy Child. What are the dynamics that make up this aspect of your contractive, disempowered nature. What is the necessary understanding and medicine that you need to apply to shift your inner and outer relationship to this part of you?

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Stop Allowing Your Job to Own Your Life

In this question Markus addresses the way most people unconsciously approach their relationship to their work, their clients and/or job. Does your job own you? Do you have an empowered relationship to your work? What are the contractive dynamics at play? What are the most common underlying projections most people have on their employers and…

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Recognizing the Difference Between Enabling and Nurturing

In this discussion Markus explores the confusion between the Mature Inner Adult Archetype, the Nurturer and the Shadow Inner Adult Archetype the Enabler. How are they different? Why are they often confused? Why is it important to know the difference?

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The Internal Controlling Adult vs the Protector: Control vs Boundaries

Markus addresses this commonly misunderstood idea in this video as he unravels the dynamics of the Shadow Inner Adult aspect of the Controlling Inner Adult and the Mature Inner Adult aspect of the Protector. What are the subtle differences between boundaries and control? Sometimes they seem very similar and it is difficult to know the…

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