Tag: IRAM

The IRAM (Inner Relationship Archetypal Model) section contains content that investigates the 24 relationship archetypes of the Radiant Inner Child, Mature Inner Adult, Wounded Inner Child and Shadow Inner Adult. Learn how to apply this powerful map of your inner conditioning to all of your inner and outer relationships through these real life examples. Explore how your conscious and unconscious belief systems and conditioning influences every relationship in your life. Learn how to transform every outer relationship from the inside out.

For more specific exploration, click on one of the 4 expansive or contractive quadrants below:

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Getting Lost in the Wound (22 mins)

Q: I have been having a lot of trouble when I get triggered and go into a specific fragment of my Wounded Inner Child. I find myself getting totally consumed by the pain of the wound, I feel sorry for myself, I get lost and I often stuck.  In this discussion we will explore the how activating the Available Adult can help this process.

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Breakfast with Bobbi: “The Shadow Teacher” Posturing, Spiritual Bi-Pass & The Inauthentic Handler

In this potent interview with Kristina Bloom and Bobbi Klebenow, Special guest, Markus Kasunich unravels the dynamics of the Shadow Teacher. What is it? Why is this person so dangerous in the Spiritual Community. Investgigate the pattterns of the SHADOW INNER ADULT: Inauthentic Handler, Spiritual Posturing, Spiritual Bi-pass, accountability, integrity, Mentorship, and the initiation process of ancient Mystery Schools.

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The Danger of Spiritual Posturing

Pay attention to so called “teachers” who need to garner attention and grandstand their spiritual prowess or position at your expense. These tactics are often hard to spot because the unchecked Inauthentic Handler is a Master of Deception. On the surface, they may say all the right things, tell stories to demonstrate and elevate their position or their abilities, know all the right people, and be involved in all the right environments…

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Waking Up, Cleaning Up, and Growing Up (20 mins)

These 3 processes (compliments of Spiritual teacher Ken Wibur) are the necessary keys in your personal and Spiritual development. Without them, it is almost impossible to reach your full potential. In this powerful discussion Markus defines and examines how these elements on th path, and apply to every aspect of your journey.

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WOUNDED INNER CHILD: Frozen Child – Breaking Through “Feeling Stuck” (45 mins)

“I feel stuck and I don’t know how to move forward. Can you help?” This a common experience for many people at some point in life. In this powerful discussion we explore the dynamics and the remedy of the WOUNDED INNER CHILD: Frozen Child to get you back on track.

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THE SHADOW ADULT: Inauthentic Handler (45 mins)

The SHADOW INNER ADULT: The Inauthentic Handler. Explore all the dynmaics of this aspect of the Shadow. Understanding the qualities and expression of this archetype can assist you in more consciously navigating all of your inner and outer relationships.

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The Enabler: Working with the Subtle Patterns of Martyrdom and Self-sacrifice

The real work to change your behavior begins in noticing the day-to-day subtle patterns of Enabling and Self-Sacrifice…

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Navigating The Difference in the Feeling and Expression of Anger (11 mins)

There is a difference between having the right to feel your contractive emotions and how you choose to express those emotions…

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3 Words That Can Deeply Impact Your Relationships

The use of these three words (but, never and always) can have devastating affects on your communication, self worth and relationships.

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5 Tips for Engaging in an Accountable Resolution  (16 mins)

My partner and I are learning how to engage in healthy discussion to sort out an issue when there is a conflict….

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Guided Meditation: Connecting to the Sacred Child

Use this short but powerful Guided Meditation to easily connect to the most sacred aspect of your being. Tap into the Radiant Inner Child and awaken the Sacred Child…

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Q&A – Understanding the Primal Wound of Injustice

Q: Can you talk about the dynamics of the PRIMAL WOUND of Injustice? I find this core issue one of the most difficult to wrap my head around. I could use some help to better understand it and how it works. Can you help?

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Trauma Bonding: Contractive & Expansive Feedback Loop

So many of our relationships are examples of unconscious trauma bonding aka Contractive Relationship Feedback loops. In this clip we explore the types of contractive bonding that can occur in relationships and the possibilities for Expansive relationship feedback loops.

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MATURE INNER ADULT: The Dynamics of the Protector

Using the IRAM model, in this clip we will examine the many dynamics of the MATURE INNER ADULT archetype, The Protector. This powerful aspect of your being is a necessary component for balanced, mature inner and outer relationships.

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