Tag: IRAM

The IRAM (Inner Relationship Archetypal Model) section contains content that investigates the 24 relationship archetypes of the Radiant Inner Child, Mature Inner Adult, Wounded Inner Child and Shadow Inner Adult. Learn how to apply this powerful map of your inner conditioning to all of your inner and outer relationships through these real life examples. Explore how your conscious and unconscious belief systems and conditioning influences every relationship in your life. Learn how to transform every outer relationship from the inside out.

For more specific exploration, click on one of the 4 expansive or contractive quadrants below:

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Waking Up, Cleaning Up, and Growing Up (20 mins)

These 3 processes (compliments of Spiritual teacher Ken Wibur) are the necessary keys in your personal and Spiritual development. Without them, it is almost impossible to reach your full potential. In this powerful discussion Markus defines and examines how these elements on th path, and apply to every aspect of your journey.

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WOUNDED INNER CHILD: Frozen Child – Breaking Through “Feeling Stuck” (45 mins)

“I feel stuck and I don’t know how to move forward. Can you help?” This a common experience for many people at some point in life. In this powerful discussion we explore the dynamics and the remedy of the WOUNDED INNER CHILD: Frozen Child to get you back on track.

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THE SHADOW ADULT: Inauthentic Handler (45 mins)

The SHADOW INNER ADULT: The Inauthentic Handler. Explore all the dynmaics of this aspect of the Shadow. Understanding the qualities and expression of this archetype can assist you in more consciously navigating all of your inner and outer relationships.

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The Enabler: Working with the Subtle Patterns of Martyrdom and Self-sacrifice

The real work to change your behavior begins in noticing the day-to-day subtle patterns of Enabling and Self-Sacrifice…

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Navigating The Difference in the Feeling and Expression of Anger (11 mins)

There is a difference between having the right to feel your contractive emotions and how you choose to express those emotions…

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3 Words That Can Deeply Impact Your Relationships

The use of these three words (but, never and always) can have devastating affects on your communication, self worth and relationships.

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5 Tips for Engaging in an Accountable Resolution  (16 mins)

My partner and I are learning how to engage in healthy discussion to sort out an issue when there is a conflict….

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Guided Meditation: Connecting to the Sacred Child

Use this short but powerful Guided Meditation to easily connect to the most sacred aspect of your being. Tap into the Radiant Inner Child and awaken the Sacred Child…

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Q&A – Understanding the Primal Wound of Injustice

Q: Can you talk about the dynamics of the PRIMAL WOUND of Injustice? I find this core issue one of the most difficult to wrap my head around. I could use some help to better understand it and how it works. Can you help?

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Trauma Bonding: Contractive & Expansive Feedback Loop

So many of our relationships are examples of unconscious trauma bonding aka Contractive Relationship Feedback loops. In this clip we explore the types of contractive bonding that can occur in relationships and the possibilities for Expansive relationship feedback loops.

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MATURE INNER ADULT: The Dynamics of the Protector

Using the IRAM model, in this clip we will examine the many dynamics of the MATURE INNER ADULT archetype, The Protector. This powerful aspect of your being is a necessary component for balanced, mature inner and outer relationships.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: The Problem With Using Your partner as Your Therapist

Everyone wants a companion and partner who will support them in their process. Of course, but what happens when you make your partner your therapist? What kind of affect does this have on your relationship? How do you shift this dynamic and what are the unexplored conditioning that creates this behavior. In this Coaching Case…

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The Healing Power of Pets

In this discussion we explore the healing power of pets. Why are human beings so obsessed with their pets? What are the deeper dynamics that make humans so attracted and devotion to their animal companions? What role do pets paly in the spiritual journey of self-investigation?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Trauma Bonding – Expansive & Contractive Relationship Feedback Loop

In this powerful discussion we will explore the concept of “trauma bonding” and explore the dynamics that make up this type of contractive relationship feedback loop. We will also compare and contrast the difference between the Contractive and Expansive Feedback Loop and learn how to move “from below the line” to “above the line”.

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