Tag: Coaching Case Studies

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Creating More Romance in your Relationships (35 mins)

Q: I want more romance from my partner. Where did it go? I have asked, I am not sure my partner really knows what it is or what to do. In fact, I am not sure I have ever articulated what romance is to me. If I want to ask for more romance, I need to understand what it is. Can you discuss the dynamics of romance, how to create it and how to sustain it?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Needs, Authenticity, Integrity and Boundaries (30 mins)

Q: My mom told me she is planning on leaving my dad after 39yrs. She has not told him yet.  And She kind of indirectly announced that she would like to stay with me when she does. She offered some money to help fix up one of our extra rooms where she could stay and suggested that she use the space as a base of operations. (not sure what that means…)   

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Projection – Putting Your Partner on a Pedestal

  What happens when you put your partner on a pedestal? In this discussion we explore the unbalanced dynamics that happens with this type of projection and how it is impossible to maintain a equal relationship.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Exploring the Dynamics of “Make Up” Sex

Q: What the hell are the dynamics that create “Make up Sex” and why is it so intense? I have experienced it, so I know its real. But I do not get why it can be so amazing and bloody addictive. I think I may also unconsciously create a conflict to have the payoff because…

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The Qualities of Commitment

Why is commitment necessary for a thriving relationship? What are the qualities to healthy commitment? In this discussion we will explore the different aspects that make up a commitment and discuss why it is a deeply important prat of creating a truly healthy experience with your partner.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Rekindling the Dynamics of Romance

Is the Romance lost between you and your partner? Where did it go? What happened? Can you rekindle the romance you once had that brought you together in the first place? How do you cultivate the “romantic Q-Spot”? In this discussion we will explore how to begin rekindling the romance in your relationship.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: The Problem With Using Your partner as Your Therapist

Everyone wants a companion and partner who will support them in their process. Of course, but what happens when you make your partner your therapist? What kind of affect does this have on your relationship? How do you shift this dynamic and what are the unexplored conditioning that creates this behavior. In this Coaching Case…

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Shifting A Destructive “High Performance” Mindset to Struggle

In this Q&A we explore the fascinating relationship that “high achievers” have with the contractive relationship to struggle. Even though their relationship may allow them to be highly productive, what is the cost to their long term experience to balance? How can you notice the behavior and shift this unhealthy dynamic?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Trauma Bonding – Expansive & Contractive Relationship Feedback Loop

In this powerful discussion we will explore the concept of “trauma bonding” and explore the dynamics that make up this type of contractive relationship feedback loop. We will also compare and contrast the difference between the Contractive and Expansive Feedback Loop and learn how to move “from below the line” to “above the line”.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Exploring the Qualities and Dynamics of “True” Consideration

Q: I would love you to speak about being considerate and thoughtful to your partner. I have always thought that my partner was a considerate person. That is what I always told myself – and that is what I wanted to desperately believe. But I could never really explain why I often feel this inner…

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Developing True Resiliency

Q- These times seem to require heightened resiliency, shifts in our mindset, relationships and in our priorities to deal with the world around us. Do you think resiliency a learned skill? What makes one person more resilient than another? And from your perspective, what are the most important qualities to sustain resiliency?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Parenting as a Spiritual Practice

Q- I am a single parent. I am constantly battling with balance. How do I prioritize children and motherhood and at the same time continue still be fully committed to my own inner development and path? I don’t want to give up my life – And, I want to role model to my child that…

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The Root Causes of Toxic Masculinity

What is at the source of Toxic Masculinity? What are the cultural influences and conditioning that have created and precipitated this behavior ? How does this translate to our relationship between the genders and how does this define our every day behavior? To access more on this topic explore the course “Understanding Toxic Masculinity.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Examining Trust, Control & Agreements in Relationships

Q- A man I’ve been involved with for many years is wanting us to consider the next step… He however is concerned about a few things- He feels that I put down his friends – in particular a couple of girls that he is friends with and it makes him feel that I’m judgmental not…

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Understanding the Root Causes of Jealousy, Competition and Envy

in this discussion Markus explores jealousy, competition and envy. What causes these behaviors in an individual? What are the root causes that create this conditioning and how can understanding these patterns change your inner and outer experience?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: The Qualities of a Healthy Inner/Outer Relationship

What are the qualities of a truly healthy inner and outer relationships? In this video, Markus outlines what dynamics you want to cultivate in order the help create and sustain this expansive state in your inner and outer world.

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