Tag: Behavior / Conditioning

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Q&A – Projection & Victimization: The Dark Side of the Empath

Pop-culture spirituality often references the Archetype of “the Empath.” In this clip we explore victimization and Projection – the often unexamined dark side of that archetype.

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MATURE INNER ADULT: The Dynamics of the Protector

Using the IRAM model, in this clip we will examine the many dynamics of the MATURE INNER ADULT archetype, The Protector. This powerful aspect of your being is a necessary component for balanced, mature inner and outer relationships.

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Q&A – Accessing A Deeper Reality Through Metaphor and Symbolism

So many people ask how can I access a deeper experience of my reality? What tools can I use? In this discussion we explore the importance and the power of symbolism and metaphor to access the untapped aspects of the human experience to take you deeper.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Projection – Putting Your Partner on a Pedestal

  What happens when you put your partner on a pedestal? In this discussion we explore the unbalanced dynamics that happens with this type of projection and how it is impossible to maintain a equal relationship.

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Q&A – Exploring the Dynamics of Boredom

What is Boredom? What creates this experience in the being? Why do I get bored? What tools can I apply to better understand it.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Exploring the Dynamics of “Make Up” Sex

Q: What the hell are the dynamics that create “Make up Sex” and why is it so intense? I have experienced it, so I know its real. But I do not get why it can be so amazing and bloody addictive. I think I may also unconsciously create a conflict to have the payoff because…

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The 4 Keys to a Successful Self-Reset

“Starting over is an acceptance of a past we can’t change, an unrelenting conviction that the future can be different, and the stubborn wisdom to use the past to make the future what the past was not.” ― Craig D. Lounsbrough The beginning of every new cycle usually offers a natural reset to clear the slate,…

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Using Your “Personal Story” to Explore Inner Dynamics

How does your personal story affect the way you engage with your inner and outer world? Why is it necessary to investigate your own story? What kind of power and affect can your story have on your life?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Rekindling the Dynamics of Romance

Is the Romance lost between you and your partner? Where did it go? What happened? Can you rekindle the romance you once had that brought you together in the first place? How do you cultivate the “romantic Q-Spot”? In this discussion we will explore how to begin rekindling the romance in your relationship.

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COACHING CASE STUDY: The Problem With Using Your partner as Your Therapist

Everyone wants a companion and partner who will support them in their process. Of course, but what happens when you make your partner your therapist? What kind of affect does this have on your relationship? How do you shift this dynamic and what are the unexplored conditioning that creates this behavior. In this Coaching Case…

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The Healing Power of Pets

In this discussion we explore the healing power of pets. Why are human beings so obsessed with their pets? What are the deeper dynamics that make humans so attracted and devotion to their animal companions? What role do pets paly in the spiritual journey of self-investigation?

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Shifting A Destructive “High Performance” Mindset to Struggle

In this Q&A we explore the fascinating relationship that “high achievers” have with the contractive relationship to struggle. Even though their relationship may allow them to be highly productive, what is the cost to their long term experience to balance? How can you notice the behavior and shift this unhealthy dynamic?

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Shifting your Mindset From Comparison to Inspiration

What is the line between the contraction of comparison and the expansive mindset of inspiration? What is the difference and how does choosing one over the other determine how you will relate to your inner and outer world?

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Trauma Bonding – Expansive & Contractive Relationship Feedback Loop

In this powerful discussion we will explore the concept of “trauma bonding” and explore the dynamics that make up this type of contractive relationship feedback loop. We will also compare and contrast the difference between the Contractive and Expansive Feedback Loop and learn how to move “from below the line” to “above the line”.

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Relationship: A Powerful Forum for Inner Work

Part 1: Relationship: A Powerful Forum for Inner Work. Every relationship is an opportunity and invitation for incredible growth and expansion. In this discussion we will explore the dynamics of this powerful forum for transformation. How can you utilize this commonly overlooked opportunity for healing and growth and apply that approach to every relationship you…

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COACHING CASE STUDY: Exploring the Qualities and Dynamics of “True” Consideration

Q: I would love you to speak about being considerate and thoughtful to your partner. I have always thought that my partner was a considerate person. That is what I always told myself – and that is what I wanted to desperately believe. But I could never really explain why I often feel this inner…

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