The Biggest Mistake in Most Relationships
“But there are some good moments and even some goods days. Should I throw those out the window? I can see the potential of what we could be. Maybe I just need to focus on those experiences and be grateful. Maybe it will get better if I give it a chance.”
Ask yourself, is this relationship in its present form actually expansive, healthy and enriching for me? Is this person walking their talk? It takes courage to be honest about what is really going on. And it can be sobering to face the reality of a situation that is incongruent with your ideal. Most illusions while soothing are rarely fulfilling. But the the possibility of true change and the relationship that you desire can only be manifested from that moment of honest recognition. Everything else is just a story.
“The road of someday usually only leads to the town of nowhere.”
– Markus William Kasunich
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